tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post5176983545902245017..comments2023-09-27T03:44:26.067-07:00Comments on Diary of a bereaved mother, 丧儿记,: 丧失儿子的母亲的一本传记: Diary of a bereaved Mother: Chapter 5 part 1Ann, Chen Jie Xue 陈洁雪http://www.blogger.com/profile/04399207312968010460noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-21512109395731529682011-04-15T18:42:50.623-07:002011-04-15T18:42:50.623-07:00amendment:
Now he (my husband) is the one helping...amendment:<br /><br />Now he (my husband) is the one helping me in the formatting of my book and my 14 year old son Sam.Ann, Chen Jie Xue 陈洁雪https://www.blogger.com/profile/04399207312968010460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-77877581533764289162011-04-15T18:38:41.070-07:002011-04-15T18:38:41.070-07:00You are right, my grief started the moment I was t...You are right, my grief started the moment I was told that he was dying that first day when he was born. I mourned for that healthy baby I never had.<br /><br />Throughout the grueling time, Olwyn, my pastor's wife kept reminding me that men and women grieve differently. If I bore that in mind, I could be in the right prospective.<br /><br />So here we are 32 years married, 21 years bereaved parents. God was the glue that held us together.<br /><br />Now he is the one helping me in the formatting of my book.Ann, Chen Jie Xue 陈洁雪https://www.blogger.com/profile/04399207312968010460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-83560946334028412252011-04-13T20:15:05.093-07:002011-04-13T20:15:05.093-07:00I see you are going through the stages of grief?? ...I see you are going through the stages of grief?? And without your mom, and without a really understanding and supporting husband. Of course he was hurting too. I have read many times that the death of a little child will break up a marriage, many are not strong enough to handle it. I guess it either brings you closer together or you separate.Ginny Hartzlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09329131153403895625noreply@blogger.com