tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post9078269770757208229..comments2023-09-27T03:44:26.067-07:00Comments on Diary of a bereaved mother, 丧儿记,: 丧失儿子的母亲的一本传记: Artist Oliver Wong: Still BornAnn, Chen Jie Xue 陈洁雪http://www.blogger.com/profile/04399207312968010460noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-89633652374987073792012-01-10T22:22:52.014-08:002012-01-10T22:22:52.014-08:00"There is melancholy in the wind and sorrow i..."There is melancholy in the wind and sorrow in the grass" (Charles Kuralt).oliver wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09741031566533980741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-22565485599614497972012-01-10T08:14:47.420-08:002012-01-10T08:14:47.420-08:00Excellent composition! I like this painting and it...Excellent composition! I like this painting and its beautiful colors, very suggestive of emotions.Leovihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14970831445283294241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-55230246685653764322012-01-09T00:58:06.948-08:002012-01-09T00:58:06.948-08:00Ellen Hopes
I hope it's not too deep. It'...Ellen Hopes<br /><br /> I hope it's not too deep. It's hard to express the degree of isolation I live in as a parent who has lost a child due to rare disease. Ken and I said today. Our choices are to keep our heads down and continue to feel like we don't belong or less than human or to light up the universe and expose the black hole we live in for what it is. Some will listening. Some will avoid us, but we don't need to live in darkness anymore.Ann, Chen Jie Xue 陈洁雪https://www.blogger.com/profile/04399207312968010460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-86362504435448561962012-01-09T00:57:19.697-08:002012-01-09T00:57:19.697-08:00Ellen Hopes:
I wanted tell you how much your frie...Ellen Hopes:<br /> I wanted tell you how much your friendship means. Today on the way home from church I cried so hard. I got in touch with the feelings of how isolated my life wasy after Addison died, I was diagnosis with cancer and my mother died. I kept all together for my family. Somedays the memories come back in waves. Ken and I some deep conversations. It not an easy truth, when you learn you carry a fatal disease. I think I am having a mid life crisis. I spent so much of my life chasing after getting pregnant. The doctors took it away. They look me in the eye, I went to chemo alone many days singing I will have a baby. Instead our family was chased by some weird doctor and the story of Hope's birth was pushed aside for the agenda of the medical community. I know what I want this life. I am going to empower my life. There are many wounds wide open. Anger to resolve. Somehow, when no one is looking I am going to take this life and turn into a butterfly. I just hated when the doctors feel nothing. How can they look me in the eyes when I am crying and tell me, "I don't feel bad for you at all.". "At least you have Hope.". Who tells a greiving parent to just give thanks. These are our children. No matter what age they are our dreams. The dream of another baby kept me alive through cancer. They ripped that dream from me. I am expecting more because I deserve better. Once again you inspire me.Ann, Chen Jie Xue 陈洁雪https://www.blogger.com/profile/04399207312968010460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-59101975464087658482012-01-09T00:21:03.139-08:002012-01-09T00:21:03.139-08:00So touching!! I might not really be able to apprec...So touching!! I might not really be able to appreciate modern art..but the face of the woman is very very expressive and touching...Ensuraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05201156760287157665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-72528693660567985572012-01-08T16:15:54.067-08:002012-01-08T16:15:54.067-08:00Oliver, your painting is so beautiful. It truly s...Oliver, your painting is so beautiful. It truly speaks to me. Thank you for sharing it with us all. xxxx When I look at that picture, I see them all. All my little ones, who couldn't be here with me today. Thank you for that. Thank you so much. <br /><br />Christopher Matthew<br />Tiny<br />Theodore Douglas<br />Jellybean<br />Peanut Anthony<br />Poppet Roseanne<br /><br />All always missed, and playing with their little friends in gardens in the sky. xxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4452869545267993676.post-86613670494782221922012-01-08T15:41:11.482-08:002012-01-08T15:41:11.482-08:00Geraldine Lim Let's spare a thought for all ou...Geraldine Lim Let's spare a thought for all our little babies who never had the chance to be loved and cuddled by their loved ones and pray a little prayer for all those grieving mums and dads.<br /><br /><br /><br />Oliver Wong :<br />I find it easier to express through painting Thanks Geraldine Lim for the kind thoughts, we all need each other..in happy or sorrowful periodsAnn, Chen Jie Xue 陈洁雪https://www.blogger.com/profile/04399207312968010460noreply@blogger.com