The Pohutukawa tree, crimson at this time is chosen to be our New Zealand Christmas tree. In this festive time, spirits are high, some enjoy and be merry. Be mindful that there is a group of people who are not feeling merry or festive. They are the bereaved. I have been in touch with some, and I did this post for them. Some people think I should move on, and not dwelt in the past. Sorry I tell them, my message and my reason for living is to help others.