I wear two SANDS (Still Born and neonatal) Bands on my right hand. People ask me why I wear 2 bands.
My reply, the very
reason you are asking. It attracts attention for people to ask. It's like wearing an invitation, "Come on, ask."
My baby son Andrew died 24 years ago. Since I published my book in 2003, I got involved with SANDS.
I tell them it is OK to cry.