My bereavment bands

I thought I lost one of my bereavement bands. Went to look for something else in my husband's car and found it. I am wearing 2 again. People ask me why I wear 2 bands, My reply, the very reason you are asking. It attracts attention for people to ask.  People notice when I am wearing two. Went to the first bereavement meeting this year, and felt very sad for a new mum
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